Good Evening World!!!
To sleep with him or not to sleep with him? Where are all my long-term relationship people at? Married, Engaged or cohabitating couples this is something for you. Do not mind the title it can go both ways her or him. We all know, that we are living in the era of technology and most of us either have a phone, tablet, laptop, computer and/or Television in front of our face majority of the day. Oh and especially those of us who are involved in entrepreneur activities. The hardship of trying to build a “Brand” and complete a project leaves us up all hours with little to no sleep. It is constant thoughts, planning, and actions going on to get your work establish and leaves no time to sleep. So in order to not be inconsiderate, rude or label as a nuisance I relocate my activities to the couch. I am aware and respect the fact that my husband’s alarm is set to go off at super early hours in the morning. So, out of respect for him I pack up, leave the room and close the door to make sure his sleep is uninterrupted. This is love right sparing your dear sweet mate…wrong apparently for months now my husband has been dropping subtle hints about him waking up and I am nowhere to be found. I kept shrugging my shoulders but they have become more direct and accompanied with a serious look. I think he means business now. I just know personally this: one I cannot go to bed early like him, two I only get privacy and silence at odd hours in my house, three the brain juices are flowing at these hours, four there is no better solution, and I explain this daily. The kids are literally glued to me throughout the day and I only get to breathe at night. I am working on multiple things right now and I have to keep it going, while I have the momentum. My couch has literally become my bed I love it so much, it is comfortable and my preferred place to relax and work. I fall asleep on the couch almost nightly and sometimes I wake up thirty minutes before his alarm goes off and slide into the bed and fall back to the sleep but apparently not enough to avoid the “TALK”. He says “it would be nice to have my wife sleep in bed with me tonight” and I smile and he says “my wife never sleeps in our bed” I say honey I am doing productive things. So am I wrong for this? It is not as easy as oh “find a healthy balance” because our schedule is crazy do not forget we have four kids on top of all this…wake up there is no balance just constant tasks and movement. So again I ask..am I wrong? Does anyone else have this problem? How are you managing this? Who out there significant other is ready to throw there electronics out the window, due to there absent state? Mine said he might have to confiscate my electronics 😦 anyways if you are like me you are not alone.