Good Late Night Friends!!!
So I am curious does admiring someone lead to cheating? Since I have been married I have been warned by numerous married or use to be married people to avoid admiring the opposite sex. It can open the door for trouble or you can come across too inviting and get yourself into some stuff. I know so many people fall on different sides of the spectrum with this topic. I personally in the beginning of my marriage turned into a psycho woman who had my husband scared and nervous to even glimpse in the direction of another woman in my presence lol. I have grown since than and became maybe some would say too relax. I was talking to my older brother who said do you want someone to be honest with you or lie to you.
He said I look away from women when they pass me so I do not have to hear my wife’s mouth or get in trouble. He said but realistically you do not just wake up the next day after being married and think everyone in the world has turned completely ugly let’s be real CharDé. He said I know I do not want any other woman and I love and will be loyal to my wife. But I also know I am not blind neither is she…it is okay to see good looking people in this world and acknowledge they exist without being disrespectful (meaning drooling over them, trying to hook-up, acting overly eager, breaking your neck, and all that crazy stuff). I said so if she ask you does a woman look good do you say yeah he said no that’s a setup lol what confusion.
I never catch my husband looking until a couple of weeks ago. We were both walking to our cars which were in separate directions and he thought I hit the corner and I saw this lady ahead of him in her gym attire looking good and I pause to see his reaction he did one of those weird head straight but my eyeballs are to the side looking at her look lol. I was not mad I just had to laugh because I been trying to catch him for years doing it but because he knows I am present I never do. I mean I honestly see attractive individuals, is that bad to say? Is it playing with fire to admire these individuals? Are you setting up the possibility of cheating? I am curious is it okay to admire physical features and character traits of someone other than your mate or is that taboo? Admiring leading to Cheating hmmm please share experiences or opinions. 😉 I wont tell 😉