Good Evening Beautiful People!!!
I know this answer can vary by people due to cultural, religious, community, and so on….. I am seriously curious when people usually talk to there kids about sex. My biggest fear is someone else talking to my child about sex and false beliefs become her reality. I also do not want to bring it up too early. I also do not want to use my mother’s method and just say there is nothing to talk about you can’t have sex until your married lol. Let me just say her teachings were not effective. I want to be a step ahead and teach her the importance of waiting but I really am nervous, scared, and awkwardly feeling about that topic with her. I ask her questions like….Do your friends talk about boys or have crushes? She looks at me like please lady, why would I tell you any of this stuff? This family life has it’s easy days and it’s challenging days. I really want to make sure she is prepared for these knuckle heads and know how to properly handle the situations. My boys are going to be another story, I have time to prevent them from turning me into a grandmother early so I plan on hitting them with a talk when their time comes. When do you have the talk? How do you have the talk? What do you say during the talk? These are questions I think about and want to be prepared when it goes down! Great suggestions, tips, and ideas are always welcome.